Back during my interview days (which wasn’t that long ago), I had always boasted about my impeccable skill of committing to something consistently. But when it comes to my own personal goals, nothing really seems to stick.
I like to make lists. It helps me see the big picture of my work, yet at the same time gives me the opportunity to tackle it piece by piece. This technique worked very well in school, but not as much on my own. The thing is, I find myself constantly treading the line between giving myself an exact structure of what I want to do, yet leaving enough space so I don’t feel boxed in. I like to make schedules, but I also don’t like to be told exactly what to do (in this case, it’s me that’s bossing me around).
Maybe this kind of explains why I didn’t follow my previous spiel about consistent posting. I made myself a schedule, and stubbornly disobeyed it. I know. It’s a mess.
So. As a way of a comeback, I would like to present a list of updates of what has been happening the past month.
1. I got a job. This explains a lot, maybe. But also, it’s taking a lot from me just to not stop mid-walk down the street with the realization of how much change has happened in just a few short months – from going to school the first half of the year to moving to a different county and having a day-to-day routine like nothing happened. It’s weird. I try everyday not to freak out. But, the job is good. I am now in the nonprofit world, which is an entirely different alien of a planet. I’m happy that I finally got in. It is the idealistic college graduate’s dream. It’s also a chance to really explore whether I want to be in this world or not – a great opportunity for the young me.
2. I’ve been going to the cinema a lot. I love films, and I do want to write some film reviews, but I have absolutely no idea how. I still feel “film criticism” is some cheeky high-brow BS club I have no qualification to get in to. Two weeks ago, my little brother and I watched Kubo and the Two Strings, the latest Laika production. I’ve been following their films since the dawn of time (one of my favorite movies is Coraline). Needless to say, they never disappoint. Another one that we’ve watched is Miss Peregrine’s Home for Peculiar Children, the latest Tim Burton film. I have a lot of feelings for both the book and the movie. Mostly it’s annoyance.
3. I discovered John Mulaney last weekend, and watched both The Comeback Kid and New in Town on Netflix over and over. He’s just the kind of funny that I’m into – not overwhelmingly expressive and with just the right amount memorable impressions. He’s my favorite stand-up at the moment.
4. I haven’t been writing or doing anything creative lately which sucks, but I’m hoping to do more this October as I start adjusting to this new routine. I’m excited to go to this huge art supplies store that I found and make awesome stuff.
5. I have officially entered the world of the American culture known as the Small Talk. And it’s maddeningly excruciating. I have a lot to say about this. As an outsider I find it unnecessary, dull and a bit fake but mostly it just makes me feel very anxious. I’ll probably write more about this.
So that’s it. My life has been rather calm on the outside, which I’m very thankful for, considering my everyday inner turmoils. I want to post here every week at the least. (That’s not a promise so don’t think I’m bossing you around, self.) But I think October will be great. One: it’s my favorite month of the year because duh, Halloween. And two, it’s Fall. My first Fall. I’m excited.